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Secret Santa Generator With Exclusions

Add pairs to keep apart, like couples, then draw. No one draws themselves, and every exclusion is respected. No signup.

How do I stop couples from drawing each other in Secret Santa?

Use a generator with exclusions. In GiftList's free Secret Santa generator, add everyone's names, then under Exclusions tap Show and pick the two people to keep apart, such as a couple. An exclusion works both ways, so neither draws the other. Then draw: no one draws themselves, and every exclusion is respected. If the exclusions leave no valid draw, the tool says so instead of breaking one.

Draw names

1. Add Participants

Add at least 3 names to get started.

2. Exclusions
Optional

Frequently Asked Questions

An exclusion keeps two specific people from drawing each other. Use it for couples, roommates, siblings or anyone who already exchanges gifts separately.

You need at least 3 people. In a small group with many exclusions, a valid draw may not exist, and the tool will say so rather than break an exclusion.

No. This instant draw needs no signup. The results link shows every pairing to whoever holds it, so send each person their own link instead: it shows only their assignment.

Want everyone to add a wishlist too? GiftList's full Secret Santa draws names for 3 to 100 people, and each person links a wishlist or answers the Mystery Q&A. It's free, and each person needs a free account to see their match.